Self-Control and Disciplining the Body: Our Calling in Christ
My good friend, Pastor William Weedon, offers these pastoral thoughts on the Epistle lesson many of us heard in church last Sunday.
"Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to
receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run
aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my
body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself
should be disqualified." (1 Cor. 9:25-27)
Our Lord calls for bodily discipline and self-control. It seems to me that this falls into a variety of areas:
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Food - he calls for us to be disciplined in our use of the good gifts,
the tasty treats, He sets before us in creation. Lent is coming in a
few short weeks, providing a great time to work on this not as
individuals, but as a community of faith. My suggestion is to observe
the Lenten fast by 1) simplifying your food (if you will, more
hamburger less filet mignon); 2) eating moderately every time you eat
(consciously avoid pigging out); John Cassian wisely observed that the
Father's had only one rule of fasting: "stop eating before you are
full"; 3) plan to regularly skip meals and use the time saved for
reading, prayer, or service. A discipline I've adopted in my own life
that I've come to treasure is that I don't eat outside of mealtime,
save for an apple in the middle of the afternoon. I treat each Sunday,
though, as a little feast and allow snacks on that day.
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Drink – by which I mean alcohol. Again, moderation is the key.
Drunkenness is never fitting for the child of God, but people differ
significantly on how much alcohol they can consume before they cross
that line. The discipline I try to follow is no more than one alcoholic
drink per day – almost invariably a glass of wine. Sundays I allow
myself a bit more, as with the food. I am not suggesting that as what
any given reader of the blog to do, but just to provide an example.
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Sex – which is the real taming of the beast. The discipline to which
the Lord summons us there means that sex is reserved pure and simply
for marital intercourse and that there are no exceptions – within or
without marriage. Gentlemen, you know what that means. I've written
before that the problem with porn is not porn per se, but the behavior
that accompanies it and if that behavior is changed, the problem with
porn doesn't even exist.
* Exercise – I'll quote my good
friend, Todd Wilken: "The old Adam hates cardio." Does he ever! But
pushing the body into subjection is, as the Apostle said, "useful for
this life."
* Tongue – hey, it's part of the body. I'm talking
about talking, especially about grumbling about and criticizing the
folks around us. We need a fast on that. I wonder what would happen if
we promised that we'd not open our mouth to speak to our spouse, child,
co-worker, whatever in harshness or judgment before we opened our mouth
to speak to God about them in prayer? I think we'd have a bit more
silence, and I think that would be a good thing.
These five
areas supply most Christians, especially Christian men, with plenty of
trouble. But in the great power of the Christ who lives within us, by
whom we "can do all things through Him who strengthens me" even these
four areas of bodily indulgence can be disciplined and brought under
control. And that discipline is, I would argue, pure freedom. And if
you've managed by Christ's power to overcome in one or more of these
areas, you know exactly what I mean when I say that it is not and can
never be a source of pride – it's perfectly clear WHO gave the power
and the strength, and who alone supplies it every day. And the warning
of the Apostle is always apt: Let him who thinks he stands take heed,
lest he fall. The "way of escape" that St. Paul mentions is given a few
verses later: "The cup of blessing which we bless, is it not the
communion of the blood of Christ? The bread we break, is it not the
communion of the blood of Christ?" He enters us to forgive us when we
fall and to give us the strength to do what is impossible by human
effort alone – for He alone can change our desires.
Hope the
thoughts are of some help as you prepare to enter Holy Lent and give
thought to how you will observe this time of bodily and spiritual
training, "for the present form of this world is passing away."


Well spoken Pastor.
Thanks!
Along the lines of “sex”, I think that wives also need to be included in the picture. Sure, men can do things to control themselves, but The Golden Rule demands that we empathize with each other. As “politically incorrect” as it is (including among most Christian conservatives) it needs to be addressed. Dennis Prager has an excellent commentary to offer:
“When a woman isn’t in the mood, Part I”:
http://www.wnd.com/index.php?pageId=84350
“When a woman isn’t in the mood, Part II”:
http://www.wnd.com/index.php?pageId=84875
Dear Pastor McCain,
Thank you for the Lenten reminder!
Chuck Foy